Martina Bagaman Sarmiento, Till We Meet Again

My mother in law has been the cement of the Sarmiento Family for 55 years, raised 3 children, helped raise her brothers 2 sons, helped raise 2 of her grandchildren and was an amazing grandmother to 10.  She was born in Shanghai China, migrated to the Philippines, met and married her husband of 55 years, migrated to the USA and worked hard her entire life.  She has said to us quite often "the day I stop working is the day I die".  She had traveled much and never missed a family celebration.  Recently she was diagnosed with Congestive Heart Failure, which is treatable.  We went to visit her in early August and while we were there at her home she had suffered a hemoragic stroke, Kenny went to check in on her and found her standing by her bed unresponsive.  He got our son JT and our nephew Cleve to help him carry her down the hallway.  We called 911 and were fortunate enough to have friends there, one an ICU Nurse and one a Pharmacist.  They recognized she had stroked, so they helped with the EMTs. Within minutes she was on a gurney and off to the hospital with us behind.  The EMT's said as soon as they walked into the hospital she coded and was revived.  After a CAT Scan and other tests we received the news that she was brain dead.  We were all at the hospital at this point and Kenny's brother and family driving 4 hours away to be with her.  We had asked that they keep her alive until they arrived.  After watching her code and they had to work on her....it was all too much and with much anguish and tears Kenny, his sister Beth and I asked the ER Nurse & Doctors to stop.  We brought all the family in to say our goodbyes and I had the great blessing to hold her hand and sing church hymns to her.  Kenny administered a blessing to her and we all stood crying and loving her as she took her last breath.  At that very moment I thought to myself all the little things in life that people tend to blow out of proportion, the craziness that ensues in daily life all needs to be brought into perspective.  Life is truly short and we have so much to do, let each day be treated as a blessing.  Do unto others as you would have done unto you.

The funeral was attended by many and was as lovely as Marty was.  All the grandchildren sang, we as a family sang a song as well.  Many friends and family came from far distances to show their love and respect for such and amazing women.  The closing Hymn to her was "God Be With You Till We Meet Again".... and thats how we as a Sarmiento Family feel.